Want a Happier Relationship? Destroy It!

Telling someone to destroy their relationship to make it happier might sound like the most crazy thing you have ever heard! But it’s actually quite magical – and I do it all the time.

The tool I am referring to is a process called “Uncreating and Destroying Your Relationship”, from Access Consciousness. 
I think it is fair to say that in most relationships, upsets and unresolved issues exist.  It can be challenging to navigate your way through emotions and move past them.  And particularly in situations where you are caring for ill or dying loved ones, this can be amplified.

What if there was a way to effectively clean the slate, so you didn’t have any of those upsets and issues building up over time and impinging on your ability to have ease and joy with the loved ones in your life? This is where destroying and uncreating your relationship comes in.

Say you are having a bad day with someone, they’ve pushed your buttons and you've reacted. In that moment, you make a whole heap of judgements about them:  Who they are, what they’ve done and how they’ve made you feel. And quite possibly, they’ve made the same conclusions about you.

With all the judgements and conclusions, you've both come to, you've effectively "stuck" each other in those judgements. You wake up the next day and without even being cognitively aware of it, you relate to that person from those judgments.  And so it goes on over the days, weeks, months and years.

When you destroy and uncreate your relationship every day, you are asking for all the judgements you've made to be destroyed and the reality you've created from those judgements to be uncreated. It’s a way of clearing energy to start again every single day.

Removing the judgements and conclusions allows both of you to show up differently than before. Even if your partner doesn’t do use the tool, you doing it creates a space for both of you.  You begin to see people for who they truly are, without all the “build-up”.

What if a different possibility is truly available?
 
Did you find this blog helpful?  Wendy has an upcoming telecall with all kind of tools for navigating changing relationships.  Find out more here.